Ek Saphal Rishta Kya hai

Ek Saphal Rishta

apane rishte mein saphalata sthaapit karane ke lie svasth aadaten kaise hain main
rishte ke baare mein apana vichaar jodana chaahata hoon. mere anusaar, rishte ka 
vaastavik arth tab hota hai jab aap kisee aise vyakti ke saath rishte mein aate hain 
jo aapako majaboot banaata hai, aap par vishvaas karata hai, aapako prerit karata hai, 
aapako prerit karata hai, keval tabhee aap mahasoos kar sakate hain ki rishte mein kya 
ho raha hai. ek svasth aur premapoorn rishte vyakti ko apane poore jeevan mein khush 
rakhata hai, lekin ek premapoorn sambandh na keval rishte ko saphal banaane kee baat hai, 
hamen ise saphal banaane ke lie jeevan mein rishte ke sabhee utaar-chadhaavon ko paarit 
karana hoga.

bhee saphal deerghakaalik sambandhon. deerghakaalik sambandhon mein, yah jaanana aasaan 
hai ki aap apane saathee ke baare mein jaanana chaahate hain. lekin log badalate hain. 
apane rishte mein kya ho raha hai aur yah samajhane kee koshish karen ki aapaka saathee 
kaun hai aur ve kahaan hain. ek doosare ke baare mein utsuk rahen, lekin sammaan karen. 
ek achchhe rishte ka arth alag-alag logon ke lie alag-alag cheejen hain. haalaanki, 
achchhe vayask sambandhon mein aamataur par do log shaamil hote hain jo ek-doosare ka 
sammaan karate hain, sanvaad kar sakate hain, aur samaan adhikaar, avasar aur jimmedaariyaan 
ho sakate hain. adhikaansh log apane saathee ke saath apane sambandhon ko pyaar, antarangata, 
yaun abhivyakti, vachanabaddhata, sangatata aur sahayog shaamil karane kee apeksha bhee 
karenge.

Saphal Sambandh Banaane Ke lie Phormoola.

yuktiyaan jo aapake rishte ko behatar banaane mein madad kar sakatee hain 
(aur raaste mein chunautiyon ko poora karane ke lie behatar taiyaar rahen) 
mein shaamil hain:

ek doosare se baat karen aur apanee jarooraton ko sanvaad karen 

apane saathee ke saath yah anumaan lagaane ka prayaas na karen ki aapake saath kya 
chal raha hai.
yadi aapake paas kuchh laane ke lie kuchh hai, to dheere-dheere karen - hamale par jaakar 
shaayad hee kabhee sakaaraatmak parinaam praapt ho.
ek-doosare ko suno - aksar ham khud ko bachaane mein madad karate hain ya apana khud ka 
mudda banaate hain ki ham nahin sunate ki hamaara saathee kya kah raha hai. 

apane saathee ko yah bataen ki aapane unhen javaab dene se pahale unhen suna hai.

apane saathee ke baare mein sakaaraatmak yaad rakhen - isase aapake rishte kee raksha mein 
madad milatee hai. ek mahatvapoorn tippanee ke prabhaav ko rokane ke lie paanch sakaaraatmak 
tippaniyon kee aavashyakata hai. aalochana karane se pahale saavadhaanee se sochen.

marammat prayaas karen - yadi kisee mudde ke baare mein baat karane ke aapake prayaas 
yojanaabaddh nahin hote hain, to sthiti ko aur bhee nakaaraatmak na hone den 
(jaise vistaarit avadhi ke lie baat nahin karana ya any vyakti ke prayaason ko anadekha 
karana). 

maaph karana ya dekhabhaal karane mein apane saathee ko chhoona aapako dikhaata hai, 
bhale hee aap asahamat hon.

ek saath samay bitaen - apane rishte ko praathamikata den aur ek-doosare ke lie samay den,
bhale hee aapako ise buk karana pade. niyamit roop se aapake rishtedaar baink khaate mein 
jama aapake rishte kee raksha mein madad karega.

apane saathee sahit doosaron mein matabhedon ko sveekaar karen aur mooly den. ham aksar un 
logon ko chunate hain jinake paas gun aur kshamataen hain jinhen ham adhik chaahate hain. 
yah ek kaaran hai ki hamaare sambandh hamen mahatvapoorn kyon pradaan karate hain

yojana banaen - apane rishte aur apane bhavishy ke lie yojana ke lie lakshy nirdhaarit karen.
isase pata chalata hai ki aap donon deerghakaalik sambandhon mein hain.

sahaayak banen - ek-doosare ka nyaay karane, aalochana karane ya dosh dene kee koshish na 
karen; ham sab insaan hain. khud ko yaad dilaen ki aap ek teem hain, aur teem ke saphal 
hone ke lie, aapako pratyek ko doosare ko khush karana hoga.
tarkon se seekhen - sveekaar karen ki tark honge, aur sammaan ke saath unhen hal karane 
ka prayaas karen. talaak ka sabase majaboot bhavishyavaaniyon avamaanana hai, jo ki koee 
bhee kaarravaee hai jisase aapake saathee ko aapake dvaara neeche daala lagata hai, chaahe 
vah aapakee aavaaj ka svar ho ya aap kya kahen. tarkon mein, ham kabhee-kabhee abhibhoot 
ho jaate hain aur yah aksar un vyavahaaron kee or jaata hai jo hamaare rishte ko nukasaan 
pahunchaate hain.

keval apane saathee ke yogadaan par dhyaan kendrit karane ke bajaay sangharsh mein apane 
hisse ko dekhen. yadi aap aisa karate hain to aapake saathee ko unake yogadaan ko sveekaar 
karane kee adhik sambhaavana hai. shodh se pata chala hai ki rishton ko kathinaee hotee hai 
jab bhaageedaaron ko yahaan ham phir se jaate hain sochane lagate hain aur yah nakaaraatmak 
chakr akelaapan, chot aur niraasha se juda hua hai.

yaun vichaarasheel rahen - snehee ho (kabhee-kabhee ek lambe chumban ya garm gale utana 
hee mahatvapoorn hota hai). sveekaar karen ki vyaktiyon ke paas alag-alag seks draiv hain 
aur ek svasth aur khush yaun jeevan ko banae rakhane ke lie baatacheet kee aavashyakata hai. 
ek jode ke bhautik kanekshan mein kamee aksar rishte mein samasyaon ka ek chetaavanee sanket 
hai.

Saphal Deerghakaalik Sambandh

deerghakaalik sambandhon mein, yah jaanana aasaan hai ki aap apane saathee ke baare mein 
jaanana chaahate hain. lekin log badalate hain. apane rishte mein kya ho raha hai aur yah 
samajhane kee koshish karen ki aapaka saathee kaun hai aur ve kahaan hain.

ek doosare ke baare mein utsuk rahen, lekin sammaanit rahen. apane saathee ke baare mein 
adyatit rahana vaakee mahatvapoorn hai. mitrata sabhee saphal deerghakaalik sambandhon ke 
aadhaar par hai. saphal jode yathaarthavaadee hote hain jo yah maanate hain ki ek rishta 
ap aur daun ke maadhyam se jaega.

Rishte kee Samasyaon ke lie Madad lena

yadi aapake rishte mein kuchh aisa hai jo ek doosare ke baare mein baat karana mushkil 
ya dardanaak hai, to paraamarshadaata ko dekhane par vichaar karen. ek salaahakaar cheejon 
se baat karane mein aapakee madad karane ke lie bahut mahatvapoorn mooly ho sakata hai, 
khaasakar agar aap puraane ilaake mein ja rahe hain aur aap mein se pratyek pragati kee 
kamee se alag, niraash ya chot lag raha hai.

 

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